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Divorced? Check Your Pension NOW or Your Ex Could Walk Away with Everything




I nearly choked on my coffee when my sister told me what happened to her friend last month. Poor Janet. After 15 years of marriage and a relatively "amicable" divorce (is there really such a thing?), she discovered her ex-husband was still listed as the beneficiary on her pension. The kicker? The pension was worth more than her house.

Here's the brutal reality nobody tells you: your pension doesn't automatically follow your will. Nope. Not even close.

The Form That Could Cost You Everything

Most of us have no idea that when we die before accessing our private pension, the provider gets to decide where teh money goes. And they make this decision based on something called an 'expression of wishes' form - that little piece of paper you probably filled out years ago and completely forgot about.

I bet you don't even remember signing it.

Back in 2019, I was helping my dad organize his finances after my mom passed, and we discovered he'd never updated his pension beneficiary form after their divorce and remarriage. His ex-wife from 1987 was still listed! Thank god we caught it in time.

Your Ex Could Hit the Jackpot (While Your Kids Get Nothing)

Let me be crystal clear about this. If you die tomorrow, and your ex is still named on that dusty old form, they're getting your pension money. End of story.

And your current partner or kids? They'll have to fight for it through costly legal battles that drain both energy and bank accounts.

Rachel Vahey, head of public policy at AJ Bell, puts it more politely than I would: "With defined contribution pensions you can pass on any unused pension pot on your death to your loved ones. So dig out your nomination or expression of wishes and make sure the right people are noted with the pension provider."

Wait... How Much Money Are We Talking About?

For many of us, our pension represents the biggest chunk of wealth we'll ever accumulate. Bigger than property for some people. We're talking potentially hundreds of thousands of pounds that could accidentally go to someone you now can't stand.

Listen. I'm not trying to be dramatic, but this happens ALL THE TIME.

The 10-Minute Fix That Could Save Your Family's Future

Updating your expression of wishes form is ridiculously simple. Each pension provider has their own version, but they all ask for basically the same info:

• Your name and NI number • Your pension account details • Who you want to get your money • How much each person should receive (by percentage)

Can't find the form? Just call your pension provider. They'll sort you out.

The Messy Business of Death Benefits

I spent yesterday afternoon going through my own pension documents (boring as hell, but necessary) and realized I had completely different death benefit arrangements across three pensions from previous jobs.

Some offer lump sums to your beneficiaries, others let them inherit the actual pension. And don't even get me started on the state pension rules... they change depending on whether you reached state pension age before or after April 2016.

Ed Monk from Fidelity International explains: "Your personal pensions can be inherited tax-free by your beneficiaries and even passed on to future generations, sometimes free of both income tax and inheritance tax charges."

That's a pretty big deal.

Beyond the Form: Post-Divorce Pension Cleanup

If you got a slice of your ex's pension in the divorce settlement (or gave up some of yours), now's the time to think about consolidation.

Rachel from AJ Bell suggests: "You may be able to combine it with other pensions you have to create a single bigger pot making it easier to manage and control."

Divorce forced me to completely rethink my retirement plans. I had been counting on my ex's massive teacher's pension to supplement our lifestyle. Now? I'm playing catch-up and increasing my own contributions by an extra £200 each month. Not fun, but necessary.

The Letter No One Knows About

Sarah Coles from Hargreaves Lansdown mentioned something I'd never heard of - a 'letter of wishes' to keep with your will.

"It's easier and cheaper to update, and because it's not published in the same way as a will is, you can include the reasons for some of your decisions," she says.

This is where you can explain WHY you're leaving things to certain people. Or specifically who gets your grandmother's ring or your vinyl collection.

God. Death admin is depressing, isn't it?

But seriously - take 10 minutes today to check your pension beneficiaries. Your family will thank you for it.


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