God. I'm still having nightmares about that single egg breakfast.
When my editor first mentioned this viral TikTok "lifestyle creep" nonsense, I laughed in her face. The concept? Strip away all your small daily pleasures to supposedly retire by 40. She bet me I wouldn't last a week without my morning coffee ritual. "Challenge accepted," I told her, while silently panicking about my gel manicure addiction.
Let me be honest - I'm 38, pregnant with baby #2, drowning in nursery fees, and desperately trying to save before maternity leave hits our bank account like a meteor. The timing seemed perfect to try something drastic.
The Rules (Or How to Make Yourself Miserable)
After doom-scrolling through endless TikToks of 25-year-olds claiming to have saved £75K through deprivation, I settled on seven brutal rules:
1. No holidays or unnecessary travel (easy enough during pregnancy)
2. No beauty treatments (my nails screamed in horror)
3. No new clothes - secondhand only
4. No gym classes or memberships
5. No takeaway coffees (this one nearly broke me)
6. No meals out - cook everything from scratch
7. Start a side hustle (with a toddler... sure, why not?)
My husband just raised an eyebrow when I explained the plan. His response: "I give it three days before I find you hiding in teh car drinking Starbucks."
Week 1: Saving £161.76 (And My Sanity)
Day one hit me like a truck. Instead of my glorious three-egg chorizo omelette with all the trimmings, I made a sad little scrambled egg on half a bagel. It cost 50p instead of £2.98, but looked like depression on a plate.
The real test came after nursery drop-off. Every single morning for the past... forever... I've treated myself to a £3.10 flat white and a chat with my favorite barista, Marco. Walking past that coffee shop physically hurt. Like, actual chest pain. I trudged home to make instant coffee while questioning all my life choices.
Skipping my Monday £20 gym class was another blow. I found some free YouTube workout instead, which was fine, I guess? But I missed gossiping with Kate and Priya about weekend drama over protein shakes. That's £27 saved in an hour though.
By the weekend, I was climbing the walls needing a change of scenery. We'd normally take our daughter to this amazing farm park (£51 for the three of us), but instead packed sandwiches and went to the local park. Free, yes, but watching other parents with their takeaway coffees nearly sent me over the edge.
Does Second-Hand Shopping Actually Work?
Week two rolled around, and I was already sick of that damn 50p breakfast. But I'd trained myself to ignore the siren call of proper coffee.
My toddler needed summer clothes, and I needed maternity wear. Instead of my usual ASOS binge, I forced myself into the charity shop down the road. Surprisingly, I scored big time for my daughter - a Next dress for £1 (usually £15) and M&S tees for 50p each!
Finding stuff for my expanding waistline was trickier. Nothing screams "sexy pregnancy" like secondhand elasticated trousers, am I right? I did find a decent M&S tee for £3.50 instead of £20.
The real win? An All Saints shirt for my husband - £5 instead of £65. When I showed him, he actually thought I'd broken the rules and bought it new. Small victories.
When Work Throws You a Curveball
By week three, I genuinely considered divorcing my breakfast. But then work sent me to Manchester for a photoshoot, and the real test began.
Standing in the train station watching everyone grab Pret breakfasts (£8.20) and coffees while I unwrapped my cold homemade bagel was torture. I felt like a complete weirdo.
At lunch, my colleagues ordered Deliveroo while I ate my sad little homemade wrap. When I asked my work friend how much her sushi bowl cost, she said "£19.60 with a drink and chocolate." My wrap was £1.97.
I'm not proud of it, but when she offered me half her chocolate bar, I snatched it like a seagull on a beach chip. Back in 2018, I once spent $4K on a two-week holiday - now I was celebrating stolen chocolate.
Beauty Is Pain (And Apparently Expensive)
The final week was the hardest. After nearly a month without beauty treatments, I was looking... rough. My nails were embarrassing, and with summer weather arriving, I couldn't hide my feet anymore.
As a working mum, those salon visits aren't just vanity - they're the rare moments I feel human. But skipping my gel mani (£39), pedi (£42), and brow wax/tint (£39) saved me £120 in one go.
I tried the whole "side hustle" thing by listing unwanted stuff on Vinted and Facebook Marketplace. Surprisingly made £27 selling random crap from around the house - a bedside table, baby rocker, and some clothes. Not exactly retirement money, but better than nothing.
When my parents visited that weekend, I cooked curry instead of ordering our usual takeaway. Saved £32, but missed the convenience of someone else dealing with the dishes while I put my feet up.
The Brutal Truth
Listen. After 30 days of this experiment, I saved £695.79.
That's not small change. It's actually pretty damn impressive.
But am I keeping it all up? Hell no.
Some things are worth the money. My daily coffee shop visit keeps me sane when working from home. That £3.10 buys me human interaction and joy - it's therapy, not just caffeine.
I've already booked my nail appointment and I'm counting down the hours. However, I've actually grown to enjoy home workouts (who knew?), and I'm definitely sticking with selling unused items online.
Poor breakfast has been upgraded to a two-egg scramble with feta - a compromise between my old extravagance and the month of torture.
This reset helped me see where my money actually goes and what matters to me. Will I retire at 40? Not unless someone offers free childcare. But I'll definitely think twice before ordering that £19.60 lunch when I can make something at home for under £2.
Some lifestyle creep is worth creeping back in. Just not all of it.
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